Thursday, August 28, 2014

Let's talk about pregnancy and children

Yay, blog post #2  lol

Being pregnant is such a wonderful experience, growing a human being within you. This is our first child and I'm so excited to be experiencing this miracle. <3 We're 6ish months along now, ( i say "we" because we are growing together!) and I can feel movement quite often throughout the day and night. It seems as though he/she has a schedule of his/her own... movement comes around the same times of day and lasts from seconds to minutes long, full of kicks, twists and punches to the bladder, kidneys and other surrounding organs lol sounds rough, but at this point it feels more like a bird fluttering about or maybe a fish swimming around in my ocean belly ^-^ haha, it truly is amazing.
So, you may be asking, "why dont you know the gender?", well, because I believe ultrasounds can be harmful energetically, maybe not physically. But there is a difference between energy/spiritual harm and bodily/physical harm. Of course the midwives have told me there was a study on babies who got ultrasounds and babies who didn't and there was no notable difference... yea, I don't care. I'm not subjecting my organic baby to your non-organic machinery. Also, when you are pregnant, it's important to know that the baby is learning from you and your actions/choices, even in the womb. Which is why it's a good idea to quit smoking  (If you smoke) and eat healthy. Not only did I quit smoking but I began eating much healthier and doing yoga daily. And I feel AMAZING! I can't imagine smoking again and going a day without yoga is like going a day without eating! I've completely changed my tempo by doing things that benefit us (me and baby) spiritually and physically. Still trying to get my husband on the bandwagon lol he likes his soda and cigarettes. I don't blame him, i thought they were pretty yummy at one time. Then i discovered that soda leeches the calcium AND magnesium from your body and is acidic enough to rust nails and decompose a human body. EW. And it made me mad when i found out that there is added nicotine in almost every brand of cigarette. I believe that American Spirit doesn't add extra and is probably the healthiest of the unhealthy cigarettes. any way, i digress...
Children are born free spirited and are made into little robots who can't think outside the box by the education system. Sad but true. Didn't your parents tell you dreams are just dreams, hallucinations essentially? That's part of the robot programming too. Dreams AND hallucinations are real, just not on the 3rd dimension (will talk about dimensions another time). That's why it's our task as parents of our children, to guide them through life, to facilitate their learning. School is a good way to teach kids what its like to be in jail. Why? Because, think about it, when you were a child you probably A.) hated it or B.) loved it. Some times both. You hated it until you realized there was no way around it, then you loved it once you began using it to your advantage by socializing and playing with other kids, getting rewards for good grades and reprimanded for bad grades... as if those grades were a measurement of who you were and what you were capable of. School is a horrible way of educating your children, I would rather be a nomadic family traveling with the seasons and teach my children the important things like how to grow your own food, hunt and gather, cook, make your own clothes and such. I'll tell you whats learned naturally by children: Love and energy, quantum physics (this goes for animals too), deductive reasoning (cause/effect), observation skills, communication skills, manifestation (Law of Attraction), compassion and much more. Math was only introduced to us to count money and science to keep the search for information/answers outward instead of inward. These methods keep one separate from Source and the truth that we are one spirit incarnated in many bodies (will also touch on that another time). We have to start letting our children become who they want to, let them fly, let them create, let them make mistakes and fall down, otherwise, how would they learn to pick themselves up? Everything learned in childhood effects how they look at life as they grow up. So, say every time your kid fell down, YOU picked him/her up. Then, by association, the child would learn that when he/she gets in trouble YOU will rescue them. If they get behind on bills, they can just ask you and you'll pay it for them. Or if he/she is arrested, you'll just pay to get them bonded out. And of course you probably would because you love them, but if you want your child to be independent, i suggest not picking up after him/her wherever they go. Sounds extreme but it's so true.
Life is like water, there are ripples with every drop that will reverberate for an eternity.
If this doesn't make sense, think about our nature as spiritual beings, experiencing what its like to be on the 3rd dimension. We are adventurous, we are creative, we are active, we are compassionate, we are loving and empathizing, and we are unconditional, without boundary. Boundaries are learned, and they are unlearned. Love, on the other hand, is our identity. Unconditionally, nothing else matters.
THIS isn't taught in school.

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